Celebrate The Wisdom Of Ageing

My grandad had a saying.... Time waits for no one...

And he was so right, one thing I have noticed as I grow older, is that time seems to speed up, one minute you have time on your side, the next your in the cycle of midlife years, and I get it can be scary.

But here's a radical thought..... What if.....

We celebrated the arrival of our midlife & older years, as much as we celebrated anything else from birthdays to Christmas, after all as we reach these soul years, of 50 plus and beyond, we have been through so many life experiences, we have shed tears, we have laughed, we have gone through motherhood, and sometimes still are, and we have wisdom on our side.

This to me should be celebrated, we shouldn't be hiding away thinking what if...

We shouldn't be hiding our experiences, living in the shadows, thinking we are less than our younger counterparts...

We should be celebrating our growth, our soul evolution...

I remember being a child, and celebrating the seasons, the golden leaves in the autumn, The snow of winter, the daffodils in the spring, and my grandads roses that bloomed in the summer, and my soul always seemed to be yearning for more...

More growth, more knowledge, more happiness, love, joy...

Aged 49, I berated myself for my perceived failings in life, things like abusive relationships, a failed first marriage, motherhood that was fraught with trauma and drama, a life that never seemed of my on making, no financial resources of my own...

Not a pretty picture painted by my own mind monkeys, a story of limiting beliefs, and repeating patterns, I'll admit it was hard to leave the comfort of the small world I had created in my mind of I can't, I shouldn't, what if...

Then everything changed, I lost two very important people in my life that rocked my world...I had to breakdown to begin my breakthrough, and it opened up a soul path, that I had kept locked inside for years, a yearning, a desire for empowering other midlife women to rewrite the story.

It was the start of the journey to reclaiming me, and all that I am, the woman I truly wanted to be, to designing the life I truly desired, and rewriting the stories I kept letting myself hear, and be told...

Even from a young age I have been drawn to older woman as friends, not just for their wit, but for their grace, the stories they have of a life lived.

One of my best friends at the time, as 15 years older than me, and each day we would put the world to rights, with endless cups of tea, we would share stories, and talk about everything & anything, and boy did we laugh, age truly has no bearing on the beauty of a person's soul.

Over the past few years, I have embraced my journey of self development, and personal growth, I have immersed myself in coaching workshops, in soul healing day retreats, in collaboration with other inspiring women, I have written books, I have featured in guest blogs, and photoshoots, and I have helped women to come back to themselves...

But as I have been doing this work, I have come to realise, that my heart is drawn to introverted heart led midlife women, and women in the silver years of life.

Women with stories left to tell, women who are still vibrant, but feel lost in the overwhelming noise of life, of responsibilities to others, women still chained to their past abuse, trauma and curveballs.

Alone yes we can move, we can change, but together... we can rise... we can move mountains, we can become a sisterhood...

 

I totally believe in the magick of life, and that everything happens for a reason, or a season, that the universe has a plan, and yes we have ideas, but we have to learn to trust in the magick of our own hearts, our inner whispers, and ourselves.

I have had in my mind for a few years now, a seedling of an idea, about a heart-led community of women, a community where you can reclaim your self identity, a soul space where you can reconnect to your dreams, passions, and purpose, a place to nurture you, a space to laugh, and to be seen...

For the last 18 months this has been growing, evolving, it has been in my dreams, and the angels have guided me, as has a beautiful silver dragon this past few months... and a name has been circling... an idea that is bigger than me, a soulful container whose time has come....

Many women in midlife find it challenging, their kids have flown the nest, unless like me your starting the parenting again, I am legal guardian for my 10 year old granddaughter, the perimenopause/menopause has starting kicking in, and we feel lost, lonely, invisible, and like hang on who the heck am I now...

But what if we changed the script, what if we instead of saying we can't, we started to rewrite the story, what if we decided that the time was now to design the life we truly want to have, to be the woman we truly want to be...

I feel the time has come for us women to rise...that there is a calling for sisterhood, for isdom, for soul truth, for community and collaboration...

The Birth Of Soul...

Soul power.... will be a heart-led soul space for you to reclaim all of who you are, all that you want to be, it will be a sacred space for you to reconnect, to nurture, to nourish, to learn, to grow and evolve.

It will be a place to ask, to be heard, to gain and give wisdom, and it will be a safe space in which to laugh, to share magical soul filled stories.

It will be a soul space for YOU... and for you to stand in your SOUL POWER...

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Hugs & Wishes

Lisa xx

 

 

 

 

 

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